Being Everything to Everyone Made Us the Obvious Choice for Nobody

What XL PR is narrowing down on:

I’ve always believed that entrepreneurs were born to make a difference AND build something wildly successful. I always hoped I didn’t have to pick one, and I’ve always tried to do it all. To make a difference, my company gives contractors access to a career coach, 4 team retreats a year, a book club, and membership to the BEST media relations training out there among other things. And on the business side, let me give you a peek.

For a while, we were losing clients faster than we were signing them. And if you’ve ever been the founder, the one everybody is counting on, you know that exact feeling.

Being everything to everyone meant we were the obvious choice for nobody. I thought staying broad helped us serve a LOT of clients (15 different industries to be exact), but it turns out maybe I was missing something,

If we represent clients in the same industry, am I about to walk into a reporter’s inbox with 30 versions of the same client? Won’t they start to blur together? Won’t I be competing against myself?

So I had to step back and look at the clients who we were passionate about including ones who not only got the wildest results but actually listened to us and it was a true collaboration.

Some of our biggest wins? We took BookSmarts to $13.73M in earned media value, landed 140 placements, built a 25% revenue lift, grew their organic SEO by 700%, brought in 60+ new clients, earned them awards, and won a Golden Spike against billion-dollar competitors while shedding light on her personal financial journey of paying off over $200k in student loans in under 3 years. Utah Radon: 6,000 test requests and partnerships with major hospitals. North Star Recovery: investor relations and five recovering addicts furnished and moved into homes. Youth Futures: more donors and real brand awareness for homeless youth.

What are XL PR’s strengths?

When we looked back at the clients who brought out our best work, we expected to see a list of unrelated industries. An accounting firm. A radon-testing company. A recovery center. A tulip farm. A homebuilder. A children’s book company. On paper, they have almost nothing in common.

But realized they could be grouped into two categories: Behavioral finance and behavioral health.

Behavioral finance is the people and businesses helping everyday Americans build a healthier relationship with their money. Accounting and bookkeeping that takes the shame out of the numbers. Homeownership is made attainable for working families. Employees finally are able to save for a place of their own.

Behavioral and environmental health is addiction recovery, trauma, mental health, and the physical environments we live inside every day.

A lot of these stories most people are too scared to say out loud, but we want to tell these stories.

Here is a visual that will help:

XL PR shows their two niches, Behavioral and Environmental Health and Behavioral Finance

Why does XL PR care so much about Behavioral Finance and Behavioral and Environmental Health?

These are industries so personal to me.

I don’t just talk about financial discipline, I live it. I read Dave Ramsey in high school, tracked every expense for seven years straight, bought my first home on my own income, put money in a Roth IRA every single month for over four years even when money was tight, and never once took on a car loan, and implemented profit first in my company. I’ve been the breadwinner for years and built XL PR from zero to $715K in under three years. And you know what I STILL have triggers and shame around money that I’m working through!!

I bring that same lived experience to behavioral health. I have three neurodiverse kids. There have been social workers in my home three days a week. I walked my husband through two years of long COVID and years of other behavioral issues. My dad has Parkinson’s and is slowing declining. I have a therapist, somatic worker, anger management coach, and a nervous system regulation women’s group and do couples therapy. The taboo stuff that keeps most people quiet is exactly where I’m most at home.

And my business partner in crime aka success also lives in those same veins with me. Rachelle also lives debt free, makes no excuses, and fights hard for the companies trying to make the world healthier and better, with the exception of Diet Coke/Coca-Cola, she fights hard for that company too ;). She has a public health degree from UVU, led the school’s first-ever student-to-student giving campaign, planned events and prevention education for The Center for Women and Children in Crisis, and led the financial services PR work behind BookSmarts’s whole campaign.

What can XL PR do?

So here’s what we’re building from here. XL PR is the go-to agency in these two spaces, behavioral finance and behavioral health. We are working on the podcast connections, the earned media relationships, we will be facilitating collaborations between clients so they grow faster together, we know the events our clients need to be attending in the industry, and we have a real, deep understanding of the strategy. We deliver PR that drives real business results.

And we aren’t stopping at media placements either. There’s more coming: full funnel PR. But more on that soon.

For now, we’ve got a few more fun things landing this summer, including a brand-new website that brings all of this to life, coming toward the beginning of July.

XL PR jumping for joy because they are so excited to continue to serve businesses in behavioral finance and behavioral and environmental health!

There’s so much to be excited about, and XL PR is so excited. So if you’re a founder in behavioral finance or behavioral health sitting on a story that deserves to be heard, don’t hesitate to reach out. Let’s chat!

Schedule a call with us to discuss how we can help your business!

From Crisis Mode to Reputation Gold: How to Turn a Crisis into an Opportunity

Here’s what I know after working with mission-driven organizations: crises are inevitable. But reputation destruction is optional.

The problem is most people don’t know how to prepare for a PR crisis.

Most leaders think crisis management is about damage control, minimizing the fallout, issuing a statement, and moving on. But that’s not what the most resilient companies do. The ones who emerge from a crisis stronger than before? They understand something most people miss: a crisis is actually a reputation-building opportunity if you handle it right.

This doesn’t mean we’re grateful for crises. It means we’re strategic about them.

XL PR team members present on Crisis Management at the Utah School Public Relations Association Conference

What Even Is a Crisis?

Before we talk about how to navigate one, let’s define what we’re actually dealing with.

A crisis is an unintended event—a threat to your organization’s reputation, operations, or stakeholders. It’s not your fault that it happened. But how you respond? That’s entirely on you.

The reality is that crises come in three flavors:

  1. Those you WANT the public to know about (policy stance, plaintiff suit, death of a public figure, etc.)

  2. Those you DON’T want the public to know about (mistakes that don’t affect the public, just hurt your reputation)

  3. Those the public DOES or SHOULD know about (data breach, health hazard, etc.)

No matter which type hits you, the path forward is the same: preparation, speed, and intention.

The Three Phases of Crisis Management (And Why Most People Only Understand One)

Here’s the problem: most organizations only think about phase two: The Crisis. They prepare for the moment of crisis but ignore the before and the after. That’s a missed opportunity.

Effective crisis management happens in three distinct phases, and you need a crisis communications strategy for each one.

Phase 1: Crisis Planning (The Work You Do Before You Need It)

Key Takeaway: Preparation Protects Reputation

This is the phase where you’re sitting in relative calm, and frankly, it’s boring. Nobody wants to think about worst-case scenarios when everything is running smoothly. But here’s the hard truth: your crisis response is only as good as your planning.

But how do you plan for an unexpected situation?

How to Prepare for a PR Crisis

You may not know exactly what will happen, but you can predict and plan for most likely scenarios.

During the planning phase, you will need to build a crisis communications strategy, which should include:

  • A crisis team with defined roles: Who makes decisions? Who talks to the media? Who manages internal communications? If you don’t have clear roles assigned before a crisis hits, you’ll waste critical time figuring it out while the situation escalates.

  • Team logistics: Where will your team convene? How will you notify them if something breaks at 2 a.m.? What communication channels will you use? Decide this now.

  • Likely scenarios: You can’t plan for every possible crisis, but you can anticipate the ones most likely to hit your organization. Map those out. Build individual plans for each scenario.

  • Holding statements: Create template statements that can be customized and released within the first 45 minutes of a crisis. These are your fast-response tools. Have them ready.

  • Key messages: What are your primary messages? What are your secondary messages? Make sure every person on your team knows them and can speak to them consistently. Nothing destroys credibility faster than mixed messaging.

  • Clear communication protocols: Your best scenario is one where the public finds out from YOU, not from a secondary reporting source. This means you have to have protocols in place to communicate to each public, and you need to act fast.

Make sure to run everything by your legal counsel before you finalize it. Crisis communication and legal strategy need to be aligned.

The organizations that handle crises with grace? They did this work in advance. They don’t react. They execute.

Phase 2: Crisis Response (The Critical First Hours)

Key Takeaway: Speed + Clarity Build Credibility

This is where most organizations lose the narrative.

The first 45 to 90 minutes after a crisis event are make-or-break. In that window, journalists are calling, social media is spinning, rumors are spreading, and your stakeholders are looking to you for clarity. If you don’t provide it, someone else will.

The goal during this phase isn’t to have all the answers. It’s to communicate that you’re taking it seriously and you’re in control.

Here’s where strategic response beats reactive panic:

Strategic Response looks like:

  • Goal-oriented messaging

  • Defined objectives, roles, and messages

  • Alignment across your entire organization

Reactive Panic looks like:

  • Scattered, emotional messaging

  • Unclear objectives and muddy roles

  • Mixed messages and rogue spokespeople (the kiss of death)

During this phase, you need a messaging formula. Here’s what we recommend:

  1. Acknowledge and validate the concern. Show you understand the impact this has on your stakeholders.

  2. Provide known facts. Only state what you know for certain. Speculation is the enemy.

  3. State next steps. What are you doing about this? What will the community see from you?

  4. Reinforce values. Connect your response back to who you are as an organization.

The language matters here. You’re not being defensive. You’re being clear. There’s a huge difference.

Let me address the elephant in the room because I get asked this constantly: “But what do I do when rumors are flying? When the media is pressuring me for answers I don’t have? When people are reporting incorrect information?”

Here’s what you don’t do: you don’t panic. You don’t speculate. You don’t get defensive.

Here’s what you do: you acknowledge the situation, you commit to a transparent investigation, and you refuse to comment on specifics until you have verified information. You say things like:

“We’re aware of these reports, and we take them seriously. We’re conducting a thorough investigation and will share verified information as it becomes available. In the meantime, we’re committed to ensuring the safety and support of our community.”

That’s not evasive. That’s credible.

Phase 3: Reputation Rebuild (The Golden Opportunity Most Organizations Miss)

Key Takeaway: Recovery is Where Reputation Is Built

This is the phase I get most excited about because here’s what most organizations don’t realize: how you show up during recovery determines how people remember the crisis itself.

You have a golden window after the immediate crisis passes to rebuild trust, and the way you do that isn’t by pretending nothing happened. It’s by being intentional about moving forward.

During this phase, focus on three things:

  1. Transparency: Keep giving updates. Show that you’re taking responsibility and making systemic changes to prevent similar crises.

  2. Leadership highlights: Help people see that competent, caring people are steering the ship.

  3. Mission and values: Tell stories about who you are and what you stand for. Use this moment to actually connect with your community.

  4. Reputation management: How can you use your current position in the public eye to make a positive impact on your reputation?

We like to use the Aftercare Method, a tool that separates organizations that rebuild from those that just survive:

  • Follow-up updates. Don’t disappear after the crisis passes. Keep the community informed of progress and changes.

  • Community listening. Hear what people are feeling. Their feedback will shape how you move forward.

  • Internal morale support. Your team has been through something. Make sure they feel supported and valued.

  • Strategic storytelling. What positive stories can you tell that reinforce the values you’re claiming to protect? Lean into these intentionally. You’re already in the news. Use it. Drown out the negative with the positive and control the narrative going forward.

Remember that reputation management after a crisis isn’t about returning to the same old, same old. It’s about building on that reputation and becoming something better.

Don’t miss the opportunity to keep your name in the public mind. This is where reputation gold gets made.

The 3 Phases of Crisis Management

The Honest Truth

Here’s what I want you to know: every organization will face a crisis. The question isn’t if, but when.

The organizations that emerge stronger are the ones that:

  • Prepare before they need to

  • Respond with speed and clarity, not emotion

  • Use the recovery phase as an intentional opportunity to rebuild trust

Your crisis doesn’t define you. How you respond to it does.

And the beautiful part? If you handle it right, you’ll rebuild a reputation even stronger than the one you had before the crisis hit.

Ready to prepare your organization for what might come? At XL PR, we help mission-driven organizations develop comprehensive crisis communication strategies that protect reputation and build resilience. Let’s talk about your preparedness plan.

Schedule a call with us to discuss your organization’s crisis readiness.

We Knew Nothing About GEO Press Releases. Here’s What We Learned.

Here’s a confession: In November 2025, we had no idea what we were doing.

Here’s what happened: Novorésumé came to us in June 2025 with a problem we’d all been watching unfold across industries. Google’s search results were shifting because of AI, and Novorésumé could see their visibility declining in real time. We knew what to do with that. We’d done it many times before. Earned media. Journalist relationships. The traditional PR playbook. So that’s what we executed throughout the summer and fall.

But by late 2025, something became undeniable. Despite our best efforts, the algorithm shifts kept happening. Novorésumé’s traffic was still declining. The strategy we’d built—the one we knew inside and out—just wasn’t enough anymore.

That’s when Andrei showed us something. He’d come across a reel about GEO press releases—content written specifically for AI to crawl and surface instead of being written specifically for journalists. And he saw it immediately: this was the missing piece. We could keep doing traditional PR all day long, but if AI wasn’t surfacing Novorésumé’s content, we were fighting half the battle blindfolded.

We were hesitant at first. Honestly? Most of us had barely heard of GEO press releases. But Andrei’s vision was clear, and our team was committed to learning and executing this approach.

I’ll be honest. We had no idea what we were getting into. But it became clear pretty quickly how AI search is changing PR matters. It wasn’t a theory anymore. It was our reality.

The Moment We Realized Everything Was Different

A traditional press release pitches a story. It’s written for journalists. It’s newsworthy, timely, and crafted to answer why journalists should care.

A GEO press release? That’s a completely different animal.

GEO press releases are written for AI. They answer the queries people actually type into ChatGPT, Gemini, and Claude. They use headers that respond directly to search intent. They include FAQs that mirror real questions. They’re packed with credibility signals—stats, quotes from reputable sources, breadcrumbs that lead AI to authoritative references.

Throughout the project, we consumed any content and training on GEO we could find: trainings, articles, industry resources. We immersed ourselves in understanding how AI indexes content and how AI search is changing PR across the industry. The publicist on our account had to unlearn everything she’d been taught about traditional press releases and rebuild her approach from the ground up.

The learning curve was steep. We tried things. Some worked. Some didn’t. We tweaked constantly. And here’s what I’m grateful for: Andrei understood this was new ground. He was patient with us in a way that frankly, not all clients are. He got that understanding how AI search is changing PR and his industry meant being willing to experiment, and he gave our team space to figure it out as we went.

The Strategy: Two Releases, One Pitched to Reporters, Both Optimized for AI

Beginning in November 2025, we committed to a rhythm: two press releases every month. This became the foundation of our AI visibility strategy.

Here’s how we structured it:

Release One was actively pitched to reporters and media outlets. It was traditional outreach, with journalists in mind. This maintained relationships and kept Novorésumé visible in conventional media. It was also optimized for GEO and distributed through EIN Presswire (a paid distribution service we use to get content syndicated across networks).

Release Two was GEO-optimized and distributed through EIN Presswire.

Two GEO-optimized press releases to feed LLMs with controlled content.

But here’s the secret sauce: The content didn’t stop there. The press releases often drew from Andrei’s blog and LinkedIn posts. Same information, different channels, repeated across multiple touchpoints. This multi-channel approach became the backbone of our digital PR strategy for the project.

The thinking was simple: if AI sees the same information show up in multiple places from credible sources, it starts to trust it and surface it when people ask questions. This is how you build a real AI visibility strategy—not through a single channel, but through coordinated, reinforced messaging.

The topics we chose were timely and specific. Each one was data-driven, useful, and designed to answer real questions people were actually asking.

The Proof: May Changed Everything

By May, something shifted.

We had released a press release on how hiring difficulty varies by location in early May, and we started running searches to see how AI was surfacing the content. We tested different queries across ChatGPT, Gemini, and Claude to see what AI was actually surfacing and how it was prioritizing information. What we found was encouraging.

  • ChatGPT: When searching for information about difficult cities for job hunting in 2026, Novorésumé’s blog appeared as the top source, with the EIN Presswire press release ranking as the #2 source.

  • Gemini: Novorésumé’s blog appeared in the top four sources for a similar query. The EIN Presswire press release was the 5th source cited.

  • Claude: The National Law Review’s publication of the press release accounted for the first two sources, with Novorésumé’s blog listed as the 5th.

But here’s where things got really interesting: We started seeing genuine earned media pickups—the kind you can’t pay for, where journalists independently discovered our research and decided to use it.

Financial Express published an article on April 21st that utilized data from our AI in the workplace survey. We’re uncertain whether she found the data through the press release or the blog article, but it was a significant mention from a high-authority publication.

Forbes featured data from our January press release in an article published on May 12th. The article included a link to the press release as picked up by the Herald News, suggesting the reporter may have encountered it through their own research or media monitoring.

These earned media wins proved something important: our research was credible and useful enough that journalists were actively seeking it out and citing it in their coverage. That’s the validation you can’t manufacture.

Now, here’s the transparency piece: Both of our GEO-optimized releases were distributed through EIN Presswire, a paid service. We pay them to syndicate content across their network. That’s not organic earned media. It’s a tool in our toolkit, similar to paid distribution. But what we learned is that this tool, combined with our AI visibility strategy across multiple channels, actually works. The content got indexed. It got seen. And when paired with genuine earned media pickups and Andrei’s owned channels, it created a credible information ecosystem that both AI and journalists respect.

What We Actually Learned

This project taught me something bigger than just “how to build an AI visibility strategy.” It taught me about the power of coordinated messaging across channels. When you have credible information and you distribute it thoughtfully through multiple authoritative sources—some owned, some earned, some paid—something clicks. Both AI and humans respect it more.

It also taught me the value of working with clients who are willing to experiment. Andrei could have demanded immediate results. Instead, he knew that understanding how AI search is changing PR meant being uncomfortable, iterating, and trusting the process even when we were learning on the fly.

The Takeaway

We started this project knowing very little about GEO press releases. We’re still learning, but the results we’re seeing are evidence that the approach is working.

If you’re a business watching your visibility decline because of algorithm changes or AI shifts—whether you’re in financial services sharing research and insights, public health publishing important data, or any company with a compelling story to tell—don’t assume the old playbook will save you. The answer isn’t always to do PR better. Sometimes it’s to do PR differently—by understanding how AI search is changing PR and building a digital PR strategy that speaks to both humans and algorithms.

But here’s what we’re not abandoning: journalists and earned media are still essential. The Forbes and Financial Express pickups proved that reporters actively seek out quality research and information, regardless of industry. Our traditional media pitching didn’t stop just because we started thinking about AI. In fact, the best results came from doing both—building visibility for AI while maintaining relationships with journalists who value credible sources.

The future of visibility isn’t gatekept by journalists alone, and it’s not completely controlled by AI either. It’s a combination. The organizations winning right now? They’re the ones doing both. Building visibility for AI and maintaining relationships with journalists who actually care about good research. Whether they’re facing algorithm shifts, fighting bias in search results, or just trying to be found by the right audience—the organizations that figure out how to speak to both systems are the ones that succeed.

We’re still figuring this out, but the early evidence is encouraging. And honestly? That’s exactly the kind of challenge we want to be solving.

How to Sell Something that Doesn’t Exist Yet

There’s a pattern I see with experiential brands that I want to talk about.

They’ve got a brand new seasonal experience and they freeze. Why? Because they don’t have photos yet. They hold back on pre-event marketing, delay media outreach, and quietly wait until they “have something to show.”

This is the exact moment where the best PR strategies for grand opening events get tossed aside because brands convince themselves they need to wait. If you’re holding back until the photographer delivers the gallery, you’ve already lost momentum.

We saw exactly how powerful taking up space early can be with two big event media relations services we ran: the Utah Tulip Festival and Tulip Valley Farms.

Selling the Future: Utah Tulip Festival

Down in southern Utah County, the family behind Glen Ray’s Corn Maze made a bold move and traded their fall pumpkins for spring petals. They introduced a brand new seasonal tulip field at Leland Legacy Farm, planted a quarter of a million tulips, and built a totally hands-on , u-pick field where guests could literally walk into the color.

The problem was we had ZERO photos of the fields in bloom, not a single one to work with.

So our strategy had to shift, and this is where experiential marketing and PR really earns its keep. Instead of leaning on past pictures to do the heavy lifting, we built something else: a clear, compelling picture of the experience in people’s minds. We didn’t focus on what it looked like; we focused on what it would feel like to be there.

Photo Credit: Last Chance Photography Venue: Utah Tulip Festival

We leaned hard into descriptive storytelling so people could imagine the moment, and we positioned the festival as a new spring ritual instead of just another event. We tapped into the curiosity of “something new is coming to Utah” and built early audience ownership for the people who wanted to be the first to discover it. As a result, Utah Tulip Festival pre-sold about $10k in tickets!

And the hype was wild. The festival was so successful that they made enough money to pay back their entire investment of 250,000 bulbs, and they even had funds left over for next year. That’s what the best PR strategies for grand opening events actually look like: real numbers, real outcomes.

Same Approach, Different Problem: Tulip Valley Farms

Up in Washington, we partnered with Tulip Valley Farms, a family-owned farm run by Andrew Miller, a colorblind tulip farmer, and his wife Holly. They’re the only u-pick field featured in the famous Skagit Valley Tulip Festival, so we needed to differentiate them as the ultimate immersive experience. This is the heart of experiential marketing and PR. ou’re not just promoting an event. You’re selling a feeling people want to be part of.

 

Photo Credit: Last Chance Photography Venue: Utah Tulip Festival

But right at the start of their only revenue-generating month in 2025, the bottom started falling out of the broader industry. International tariffs hit, Canadian boycotts severely impacted local tourism, and neighboring farms saw revenue losses ranging from 20% all the way to 52%.

2026 Coverage

Photo Credit: Tulip Valley Farms

We weren’t about to wait around and see what would happen, so we got aggressive with our event media relations services and secured over 40 earned media placements in three months, including top-tier spots in Travel + Leisure and The New York Times before the festival even started. The tourism boards completely converted, which drove huge local word-of-mouth right when other farms were watching their numbers tank.

The 2025 results spoke for themselves. While competitors were bleeding revenue, Tulip Valley Farms hit a 35% increase in revenue and sold over 1,000 additional tickets compared to the previous year.

So in 2026, we doubled down. The tourism boards converted again, but this time we layered in influencers too. The top-tier press also fed directly into ChatGPT, which in turn helped drive ticket purchases for the farm and resulted in 81,000 website visits in a single month. Their total revenue was up 29% over 2025. Night Bloom tickets and revenue doubled, and overall, Tulip Valley Farms sold more of the higher-priced u-pick tickets. They also nearly broke even on the cost of paying the illustrator for their book, which was a huge win.

The Lesson

Storytelling is key. It’s the anticipation, the curiosity, the way you make people imagine themselves in the experience before it even exists. That’s what gets them to actually show up. Photos catch up eventually, but the story has to come first. That’s what good event media relations, along with experiential marketing and PR, really come down to.

So if you’ve been sitting on your hands waiting for everything to be perfectly polished before you start talking about it, please stop. Start now and build the hype before you have the proof. The best PR strategies for grand opening events don’t wait on the photographer, and neither should you.

The Founder’s Role in PR: Why You Are the Strategy (Not Just the Spokesperson)

You Can’t Outsource Your Voice

Many founders think they can just hire a PR agency, hand over a check, and magically become an industry icon overnight. But here is the hard truth: you cannot outsource your voice. The founder’s role in PR is not just about being a talking head for a company; it is about being the beating heart of the strategy.

Why Founders Are the Story

We talk a lot about getting off autopilot and “disrupting the brain stem.” The media doesn’t care about your shiny product features or your corporate spreadsheets; they care about people. Your unique founding story, your grit, and your real-world journey are what create emotional resonance. In a landscape where everyone is just trying to sell something, a founder’s raw, authentic story is the actual hook. That is the essence of a real thought leadership PR strategy.

Common Founder Mistakes

When founders struggle to get traction, it usually comes down to three main missteps:

  • Disengaged: They expect PR to behave like performance marketing with an immediate ROI without investing the 1 to 5 hours a week required to actually collaborate on the strategy.

  • Over-scripted: They sound like walking, talking press releases. The absolute best PR comes from a natural conversation from the heart. If you sound like a robot, you are giving the media “fake flowers.”

  • Unavailable: We once worked with a client who didn’t respond for weeks. The media moves fast, and when a founder goes dark, it is really hard for the PR team to build the confidence, excitement, and momentum needed for a true partnership. A successful founder’s role in PR demands responsiveness and active participation.

Jenny Groberg in Entrepreneur Magazine because of her participation in thought leadership services.

What Great Founders do Differently

Great founders don’t just sit back and wait for the magic to happen. They are deeply collaborative in the PR process. They bring fresh ideas, they provide substance and additional spokespeople for timely angles, they respond quickly, and they show up to meetings with insights into their culture and strategy that we can actively use for pitching. They embrace a true non-monetary investment and partnership mentality. This active founder’s role in PR is what separates the “okay” campaigns from the phenomenal ones.

How to Show up Effectively

I see this all the time: founders feeling completely inadequate to share their knowledge. This is especially true for women who feel like they don’t have enough knowledge or aren’t the “absolute best” in their field. But here is the reality: just being YOU is different, unique, and important enough.

Sometimes founders hide behind a whiteboard. They want more education, or they desperately want to look perfectly polished before they step in front of a camera. But in fact, the best PR is the most authentic version of you. People will be endeared to you simply because you have unique lived experiences.

On the flip side, a lot of founders are incredibly salesy, but they haven’t had any practice actually taking a stance on a certain issue. This is where CEO media training becomes absolutely critical. CEO media training helps you strip away the sales pitch and lean into your authority. Through rigorous CEO media training, you learn how to articulate your stance confidently so you aren’t just pushing a product, you are leading a conversation.

Service Highlight

Thought Leadership That Actually Moves the Needle

If you are ready to take up space, stop playing small, and act like a “wolf with a crown,” our thought leadership PR services are designed exactly for this. When a founder drops the script and fully commits to their thought leadership PR journey, the business impact isn’t vanity, it’s results.

Look at our partnership with Jenny Groberg, CEO of BookSmarts Accounting and Bookkeeping. We teamed up for a thought leadership campaign featuring aggressive media relations, recurring TV contributorships, and guest speaking.

Because Jenny was willing to step out from behind the whiteboard and take an authentic stance, the company saw a 25% increase in overall revenue, lowered customer acquisition costs (CAC), and over 140 media placements reaching 1.7 billion people (which is the equivalent of $15.73M in ad value) without spending a single ad dollar. All of this led to a 703% organic SEO boost.

On top of that, Jenny was named 2024 CEO of the Year by Utah Business and recognized as an INC. 2024 Female Founder.

That is what happens when you stop handing out fake flowers. If you are ready to do the same, let’s talk.

Why Most Founders Aren’t Ready for PR (And How to Know If You Are)

“PR didn’t fail. You just weren’t ready.”

I hear this all the time, especially when discussing PR for startups. Founders come to me frustrated because their last agency didn’t get them on the Today Show in week one. But here is the hard truth: often, the strategy wasn’t broken. The timing was. If you are asking yourself, “Is my company ready for PR?” you need to understand that PR is not a magic wand for a broken foundation, and it requires real participation from the founder.

The Biggest Misconception About PR Timing

The biggest misconception people have about when to hire a PR agency is thinking it will act like performance marketing with an immediate ROI. It won’t. We are not a performance marketing agency; we do legacy marketing. PR is a long-term game. People often think PR is just luck or guaranteed, but it actually requires creativity, data, and active participation from the CEO or founder to build true visibility, credibility, and market positioning.

5 Signs You’re Not Ready

If you are still wondering if this is the right move, especially when looking at PR for startups, here are 5 signs that you need to hold off:

  1. You don’t have the time. If you aren’t willing to spend 1 to 5 hours a week working with the PR team to collaborate on creative ideas and prep for interviews, you aren’t ready.

  2. You are slow to respond. The media moves fast. If you can’t respond to your PR person quickly, you will miss out on a lot of opportunities.

  3. You don’t want to invest. So many founders tell me their big dreams, but when they hear the minimum investment, they ask for a cheaper option or a “scholarship.” You have to invest time, money, and resources to see a real ROI in your business.

  4. You have no vocal advocates. If you don’t have customers who are actually willing to speak to the press about your brand, you aren’t ready to leverage your credibility.

You don’t trust the experts. If you don’t think PR will work or you aren’t willing to let us do our job, the strategy will fail. Honestly, half of our job is just convincing people to see us as the experts and let us work.

5 Signs You Are Ready

On the flip side, how do you know if the answer to “Is my company ready for PR?” is yes?

  1. You want to be the absolute best in your industry.

  2. You want better SEO and a stronger digital footprint.

  3. You are ready to stand out as a true thought leader.

  4. You need the extra capacity of people to help you build and share your mission.

  5. You are actively trying to grow and scale.

What to Do Before Hiring PR

Before deciding exactly when to hire a PR agency, you have to get your head right. You have to get into an abundance mindset. This process requires a lot of vulnerability. Trusting the strategy of PR for startups and scaling your business means you have to commit to a non-monetary investment and a true partnership mentality.

You need to trust the process. Results don’t come quickly or overnight, but the process will change everything. You have to understand the win (even if a targeted, small feature doesn’t look like a New York Times article immediately) and keep an open mind. We hold your vision as purposefully as our own, but you have to be willing to get in the trenches with us.

How XL PR Evaluates Readiness

At XL PR, we don’t take on just anyone. So if you are asking, “Is my company ready for PR?” or trying to figure out when to hire a PR agency, here is what we look for:

We partner with mission-driven, founder-led companies who have a unique founding story and a founder we can work closely with. We look for leaders who have a long-term growth mindset, have hit that $1 million revenue mark, have a desire to be the best, and are ready for a minimum $3,500 to $6,000 monthly starter budget.

If you are responsive, ready to trust the experts, and prepared to take up space, let’s talk.

From Personal Struggle to Front-Page News: A Step-by-Step Guide to Writing Your Own Pitch

Everyone has a story, but not everyone knows how to package it for the media. Whether you are a business owner, a community leader, or an entrepreneur, the difference between silence and a headline often comes down to one thing: The Pitch.

Following a recent coaching session with a close friend—Jerilyn, a permanent jewelry entrepreneur with a powerful story of resilience—we have broken down the exact formula for turning a personal journey into a media-ready narrative.

Here is your step-by-step guide to finding your angle, timing your outreach, and writing a subject line.

Step 1: Own Your Calendar (The “2-Week Rule”)

The first rule of pitching is relevance. Reporters live by the calendar. You need to identify upcoming national days or local events that align with your story.

The Strategy: Look ahead. If you want coverage for a specific holiday, you cannot pitch your message the day before. You need to start pitching two weeks from the relevant date. However, for broadcast, you will want to be prepared for the interview to take place the day before or the day of, as broadcast works last minute. 

Real-World Examples:

  • February: Focus on “Female Sports Week” (linking business resilience to sports/health) or “Valentines Day”.

  • March: Target “International Women’s Day” (March 8th) or “Single Parent Awareness Day” (March 21st).

April: Pivot to “Global Health Awareness Day” (April 7th) to discuss health battles or new beginnings around Easter.

Step 2: The Subject Line Is Everything

Your subject line is the gatekeeper. It must be specific, emotional, and newsworthy. Don’t use vague titles like “Interview Request.” Instead, tell the story in one sentence.

The Formula: [Protagonist] + [Action/Conflict] + [Outcome/Hook]

Jerilyn’s Winning Example:

“Single mom opens jewelry pop-up shop after cancer recovery”

This works because it immediately tells the reporter the stakes: a single mother, a health battle, and a business triumph.

 

Jerilyn, leaned into her authentic struggle to victory story, which led to inspiring others as well as a significant business impact, clients and awareness.

Step 3: Write the Pitch. Keep It Short and Sweet.

Reporters are busy. A pitch should be roughly 200 words. The structure should be personal but professional.

The Opening: Start by connecting your story to the readers.

“Hi [Name], I thought your readers might be interested in this story for International Women’s Day… I think I’m not alone in my story, and I would love other women here to find hope through some of life’s hardest moments.”

The “Meat”: Briefly explain the conflict and the resolution.

“Summer of 2024, 5 days after I got divorced, I found out that I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Practically overnight I became a single mom… Permanent jewelry was a skill I already had, and I decided to start my own business where I could have flexible work hours.”

Why It Matters: Explain the result. It isn’t just about jewelry; it’s about independence.

“My business has… made me feel like I don’t need to have a boss that I have to impress… It’s helped give me a lot of confidence to believe in myself and know that I’m doing a good job with my boys.”

The Call to Action: End with a specific request and resources.

“Would you be interested in interviewing me for International Women’s Day? … I have photos and videos that you can use, and my schedule is super flexible.”

Step 4: Vary Your Angles

The beauty of a good story is that it can be told in different ways for different outlets. You don’t just have one pitch; you have several angles based on who you are talking to.

  • The Business Angle: For outlets like Utah Business, focus on the “Founder’s Story”—how a single mom built a brick-and-mortar location in Lehi to secure financial independence.

  • The Health Angle: For lifestyle shows like Fresh Living or Good Things Utah, focus on the recovery. Discuss how “wearing your sports on your sleeve” or choosing charms that represent “obstacles or triumphs” can be healing.

The Parenting Angle: For local news segments on Single Parent Awareness Day, discuss the reality of the mentally tough balance of raising boys alone while running a company.

 

Step 5: Make It Easy for Them

Finally, never make a reporter hunt for information. Include a Google Drive link where you can include images of yourself, your jewelry, and your boys. If you are pitching TV, offer a visual element, such as bringing in product and doing a little demo while sharing the story.

Conclusion

Your story has the power to inspire, but only if it is heard. By aligning your personal journey with the media calendar and crafting a pitch that respects the reporter’s time, you can turn a personal milestone—like celebrating 1-year cancer survivor status—into a headline that helps the average Utahn find hope.

Love, Business, and the Myth of Balance: Real Talk for Entrepreneur Couples

Since February is the “month of love,” I thought I would share some relationship tips.

I say “tips” and not “advice” because—full disclosure—I am not a therapist. In fact, sometimes I feel like the last person who should be giving marriage tips! But, I am married, I do have kids, and I do run a business.

I see so many people struggle with the concept of “work-life balance.” Honestly? I don’t even think balance is a thing. I once heard a quote that stuck with me forever: “There are no solutions, just trade-offs.”

Relationships are probably one of the hardest lines to toe while being an entrepreneur.

In reality, I have no idea how to build a perfect marriage while running a successful business. But I do know what has helped me. Remember, I am not you, so this may not be the same for you, but here are the trade-offs and guardrails that keep my world spinning.

The Tip: I try to step away from technology from 9:00 PM to 11:00 PM to be with my spouse. If I can reserve that specific window for us, then I can work before or after that block guilt-free.

3. Connection (Big and Small)

We often think romance requires grand gestures, but for us, it’s a mix of the big and the mundane.

  • The Big: We try to do one big couple trip each year where we unplug—just me and him. We also aim for date night once a month. (It doesn’t happen every week, and that’s okay.)

  • The Small: We text throughout the day. If he calls and I don’t have a meeting, I take a break to answer.

  • The “Boring” Stuff: Can you do more little things together? Go to the grocery store, cook a meal, put the kids to bed, or just walk to the mailbox together. It doesn’t have to be big to be connecting.

 

The Tip: Focus on yourself. Being able to focus on our own selves and not try to control what the other person does (or doesn’t do) is powerful.

1. The “9-to-11” Rule

I LOVE to work in the evenings. Seriously, that is when I get my best work done. But I found that if I don’t set boundaries, work consumes everything.

The Tip: I try to step away from technology from 9:00 PM to 11:00 PM to be with my spouse. If I can reserve that specific window for us, then I can work before or after that block guilt-free.

 

2. The “3-Night” Max

It takes a toll working five days a week and also being gone for dinner and bedtime five nights a week.

  • The Tip: I try to have a maximum of 2 to 3 work-related events out of the house per week. If I have multiple events popping up, I pick and choose to keep them within that limit so I’m not missing family dinner and bedtime every night.

 

The Tip: I try to have a maximum of 2 to 3 work-related events out of the house per week. If I have multiple events popping up, I pick and choose to keep them within that limit so I’m not missing family dinner and bedtime every night.

4. Work on You (Therapy Works!)

They say no one ever died from too much therapy. In fact, right now my husband and I are both in individual therapy.

  • The Tip: Focus on yourself. Being able to focus on our own selves and not try to control what the other person does (or doesn’t do) is powerful.

  • The Groups: In addition to therapy, I joined two very intentional personal development groups. Meeting other men and women who are intentionally working on themselves helps me release and shed old patterns, which makes me a better partner.

5. Bring Your Spouse into Your World

Sometimes we think we need to keep work at work, but your partner wants to know what excites you.

  • The Tip: Share your work accomplishments! Tell them what is going on in your business—even the small stuff. They care.

6. Let Go of “Should”

Probably the biggest thing I’ve learned is to let go of your expectations of what other entrepreneur couple relationships look like. You will be different from others, and that is a beautiful thing.

Let go of what your marriage “should” look like, and find out what actually works for you and your spouse.

Happy February!

The Anti-Autopilot Manifesto: Why My Business Grew When I Finally Left Town

Recently, I was gone for two weeks straight—the first week in Guatemala on a women’s trip and the second week in Mexico for a family vacation. And you know what happened? The sky didn’t fall. It expanded.

In fact, while I was hiking and sipping drinks (non-alcoholic), six sales opportunities came through or got scheduled.

It got me wondering: How do we actually do this? As founders, how do we travel and keep the momentum moving but actually take the break that we desperately need (but let’s be honest, never really take, haha)? With Slovenia and Greece on my calendar for later this year, I realized I needed to figure this out. I want my business to grow because I stepped away, not just survive in spite of it. 

 

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Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

Note: This blog post is focused on women’s trips and/or solo traveling. Family trips are a whole different story that requires a completely separate blog post! 

I recently stumbled across a philosophy from Psychology Focus that explained exactly why I feel so stagnated when I stay home too long, and it hit me hard. The concept is simple: Familiar environments keep the brain running on autopilot.

When we stare at the same walls, drive the same routes, and see the same faces, our brains stop actively processing. We just repeat old patterns and run the same loops. But the moment we step into a new place, the brain is forced into “active attention.” It releases dopamine and builds new neural pathways.

I felt this shift physically. That problem that felt overwhelming at home? It shrank when I viewed it from a distance. Rumination lost its fuel because the environmental triggers just weren’t there. It made me realize that the “vacation version” of me isn’t a fantasy—it’s just what happens when my brain finally wakes up and discovers the parts of myself that routine suppresses.

But, I’m still a business owner. I couldn’t just disappear into the ether. We are currently in founder-led sales, so I had to find a way to stay connected without getting sucked back into the daily grind.

My approach was all about “transit time.” On the women’s trip, we moved around a lot. So, instead of being glued to my phone during events or dinners, I utilized those 2- to 3-hour bus rides or walks between destinations to check in. I bought an international plan to keep tabs, but I set a hard boundary: I generally didn’t respond to anything unless it was sales-related.

I also had to learn the art of “releasing.” If I popped into my inbox and saw something hard had happened in the middle of the day, I made a conscious choice to let it go and save it for the evening. Ruining my afternoon wasn’t going to fix the problem. Instead of a constant stream of texts, I had my business partner send me one daily wrap-up. I only needed to know the absolute most important things from the exec team, not every single, small detail.

And honestly? I applied that same boundary to my personal life. This might sound controversial, but I didn’t do a lot of check-ins with my spouse and kids while I was on the solo leg of the trip—maybe a few times a day, but usually not at all. If you are a mom and an entrepreneur, you know that mental space away from “home management” is healing. It is so important to reclaim that part of yourself.

I spent a lot of that time journaling, capturing the life lessons my mind was finally clear enough to learn. I realized that you don’t need to go far; any break from sameness wakes the brain up.

So, if you’re waiting for the “perfect time” to leave, stop. Your business—and your brain—needs you to break the autopilot. Have an abundance mindset and trust that just because you take a break, it doesn’t mean your business will too.

Enjoy some lovely photos and images from Driftwoods Photography of my trip to Guatemala. And special thanks to my dear friend Christina McEvoy with Macs Explore for a life changing experience.

How to Turn Your Valentine’s Day Pitch into a NYT-Worthy Story

Valentine’s Day is one of the noisiest times of the year for the media. Every florist, chocolatier, and jewelry brand is clamoring for attention. So how do you cut through the noise and land a placement in a publication as prestigious as The New York Times?

The secret isn’t just sharing a great product; it’s about shifting your mindset from selling to collaborating.

To illustrate how collaborating is different from selling in a publicist + journalist relationship, let’s analyze a successful pitch sent to Aimee, a reporter at The New York Times, regarding the rising popularity of tulips. We’ll break down exactly what makes a pitch “print-worthy”… hint… it’s not the pitch alone.

Make it stand outWhatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

1. Don’t Just Pitch a Product; Pitch a Trend

Journalists are rarely looking for a commercial for your product; they are looking for a story. In the successful NYT pitch, the angle wasn’t “Buy Andrew’s Farm Tulips.” It was a broader economic and cultural narrative: “Tulips are becoming more popular and roses less.”

Our media pitch example provided a compelling why: Roses are not perennials, are expensive due to overseas shipping, and are subject to tariffs. In contrast, “Tulips thrive here in the U.S. and avoid tariffs.”

The Lesson: As noted in standard pitch templates, you must explain how the product will shift mindsets or change habits. Don’t tell them what you sell; tell them how the market is changing.

2. Bring the Receipts. Data is King!

A story without data is just an opinion. The NYT pitch didn’t just claim tulips were popular; it provided a treasure trove of evidence. The email included:

  • Links to Statista showing the quantity of tulips sold vs. roses.
  • Articles from Better Homes & Gardens and The Independent confirming the trend.
  • Specific cultural context, such as the meaning of flower colors (e.g., Red tulips represent true love).

The Lesson: Pitch templates emphasize that journalists want facts and rely on them to write stories. You should always include data points, sales numbers, or active user stats to validate that your topic is worth talking about.

3. Serve the Sources on a Silver Platter

Journalists are on tight deadlines. The easier you make their job, the more likely they are to feature you. In the NYT example, the pitcher didn’t just offer their own client. They provided contact information for third-party industry heavyweights:

  • Allan Visser: A major bulb grower and broker in Holland
  • Ibo Gülsen: The chairman of the World Tulip Society

The Lesson: When proposing an interview, you must clearly specify WHO is available and WHY is this person an expert, highlighting their accolades and roles. By providing a mix of sources and subject-matter experts, you position yourself as a resource, not just a salesperson.

4. Master the Timing

The NYT pitch ends with a warm sign-off: “I hope that helps!! Thanks Aimee!”. But even the friendliest email will fail if sent at the wrong time.

The Lesson: For holiday-specific pitches like Valentine’s Day, timing is critical. Standard advice suggests that any time before September is too soon, and a week before the holiday is WAY too late. You need to hit that sweet spot where editors are actively planning their holiday coverage to give your pitch news value.

Summary

The difference between a deleted email and a feature story often comes down to utility. The note to Aimee wasn’t a demand for coverage; it was a “collaboration.” By combining a strong trend (roses out, tulips in), hard data, and accessible experts, the pitch gave the journalist everything she needed to write the story.

This Valentine’s Day, don’t just send a press release. Send a story package. And you just might help form this year’s Valentine’s Story in the New York Times.